What would you tell someone who felt alone?
Posted on May 27th, 2007
by
Diana
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for May 27, 2007:
The last person I met telling me he felt alone I suggested him to marry me (in a very indirect way as it took me over 2 years to make him understand that I would love to have him by my side). No joke! We married in August 2006 and are happy to have found each other although he sometimes still feels alone in his way. Read one of his last blogs and you will understand. Feeling alone, depending on the degree of this feeling can be very painful and difficult to solve ... even for the partner ...
But I am happy to be on his side and give him all the love he deserves and trying to reduce his loneliness as much as I can.
But I am happy to be on his side and give him all the love he deserves and trying to reduce his loneliness as much as I can.
The two of us

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thats almost too cute:)
…but true :)
You both look blissfull in this photo.
Thank you Jackie.
that is absolutely beautiful.
Thank you for reading it Myster.E
Your presence with your man is transcendent and beautiful. The two of you do well together. You are each a gift to the other.
I have experienced quite a bit of aloneness from birth forward and can relate to your mans feelings. One can be in a crowd and feel loneliness or in the country and feel companionship. My most recent path has taken me to the country and away from virtually all of my companionship contacts. It has been quite a challenge for me to overcome the saddness and feelings of isolation. But it has also allowed me to determine with greater clarity that which is me and that which is not me.
For instance, when my girlfriend and I split up after the move to the country I was just completely lost. She was the repository of seven years of growth and development that had occurred between us and I found it difficult to not be part of her present and future growth and development and to not have her be part of my present and future growth and development. Furthermore, I did not own independently where I had taken myself over the last three or four years of the relationship and I had no option but to continue forward with it and to do so in isolation in the country. I'll bet your man would visibly cringe reading that last line.
I wanted to crawl out of my skin at night in particular and had quite a bit of difficulty sleeping. But along the way I found out that I had never been alone and that I had a large retinue of ascended beings that were more or less attached to me and that my piercing lonliness was simply there to allow me to wake up to perceive their presence around me fully and to commence that which is my role to produce of that which we agreed to collectively produce from a time just before my birth.
My girlfriend and I parted company four months ago now. Simply put she surpressed the contact between my conscious mind and my ascended being partners and she did it in a way that when she was removed facilitated that contact powerfully. I laugh because I cannot tell if she was working for the dark side or the light side and I cannot tell if she was the grasshopper in the relationship and I was the master in the relationship or vice versa. No matter how much you know there are allways the puzzeling aspects of life and I suspect this one will puzzle me for some time to come.
In any event, you might give some consideration to the nature of your relationship with your man since I am sure that your parting would be very difficult for him. Perhaps he is on that razors edge of awakening and becoming to comfortable will just put him back to sleep. If that were so you might be called upon to surrender your role as his comforter and to instead become his facilitator in awakening. I affirm and decree that if that be so that you do each awaken together hand in hand and do demonstrate for the world the nature of the love of beings of higher consciousness. So be it. Se La.
Love & Light
Atman
Thank you very much for your wise, comforting and transparent words. I understand you very well and hope, that you too will find the peace you deserve my friend :-)